Are you feeling alone on this journey? Do you feel like nobody really understands what you are going through?
Dear Adoptive, Foster, Kinship, Grand and Guardian Parents,
Every day on Facebook I am told over and over again how alone so many families feel. They talk about how they are misunderstood and judged by those that don't live this life. Moms and Dads often question whether they are even the right parent for their child because the whole family is so miserable. To make everything worse these loving parents report how hard it is to find anyone who knows how to support them - in the moment, in the trenches!
Boy, do I get it! Thirteen years ago no one even talked about it being hard much less was there anyone who knew how to help...we were on our own! We felt so alone!
What I know for sure is that feeling like there is no one that gets it is SO hard! Just like many others, we lost friendships, stayed clear of family events and stopped asking for help because professionals were so ill-equipped...they usually pointed the finger at us as the problem. It was hard to be a part of the school system, our church family and even our original support system because they weren't able to be there for us any longer. Eventually our entire family unit was being impacted, even our marriage began to feel the wear and tear!
Every day on Facebook I am told over and over again how alone so many families feel. They talk about how they are misunderstood and judged by those that don't live this life. Moms and Dads often question whether they are even the right parent for their child because the whole family is so miserable. To make everything worse these loving parents report how hard it is to find anyone who knows how to support them - in the moment, in the trenches!
Boy, do I get it! Thirteen years ago no one even talked about it being hard much less was there anyone who knew how to help...we were on our own! We felt so alone!
What I know for sure is that feeling like there is no one that gets it is SO hard! Just like many others, we lost friendships, stayed clear of family events and stopped asking for help because professionals were so ill-equipped...they usually pointed the finger at us as the problem. It was hard to be a part of the school system, our church family and even our original support system because they weren't able to be there for us any longer. Eventually our entire family unit was being impacted, even our marriage began to feel the wear and tear!
Being on this journey can be so lonely!
You really only get it if you have lived it!
To make change I combined my past experience with troubled youth, my nursing background, never ending research, work with many adoptive and foster families with years of trial and error in my own home and have come out on the other side with a passion and ability to use a comprehensive view of a family's situation to help them create a plan that works! You see, you only really get this if you have lived it!
I have lived it!
I have lived it!
Let's work together in a coaching session to get your plan in place...you are not alone!
What if you could sit in the comfort of your own home and talk to someone who gets it? No judgement - true understanding! Able to finish your sentences because they've been there! Someone who can talk you through WHAT TO DO IN THE MOMENT!
Give you TOOLS that work for your specific situation, your specific child!
Help you know exactly WHAT TO SAY if that is what you need. Someone who could help you know you ARE doing it right, you ARE making a difference, and you CAN make a change!
Give you TOOLS that work for your specific situation, your specific child!
Help you know exactly WHAT TO SAY if that is what you need. Someone who could help you know you ARE doing it right, you ARE making a difference, and you CAN make a change!
YOU are your child's best chance at healing!
My passion is to walk alongside parents who are working to help hurt children heal. We are in this together; we CAN do this! I call it PARENT COACHING! It is about a new way of thinking and a new set of tools! Let's do this! Understand things with a new perspective, be armed with tools that work in the trenches, and the insight and support from someone who has been there so we can put it all together to create a healing plan for your family!
Here's How Coaching Works!
It couldn't be more easy!
Just follow these 3 steps...
1. Order your coaching hours below! (choose phone or Skype and # of hours)
2. Click to Return to Hope Connections to choose the date and time that works best for you and your family!
3. Complete and return the Get To Know Us worksheet! (gives us the ability to get right to work)
SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES! If you are unable to find an appointment time because you live in a time zone that is more than 4 hours different from Central Time, please email Stacy at clientcare@tohavehope.com to make those arrangements!
Our coaching session will take place via Skype or phone as you request. I will have your family's basic information so that we can get right to work! Our time will consist of identifying the hurdles you are encountering. Then making direct correlations between those hurdles and their roots. Finally, we will work to put in place the first steps of a healing plan, which will consist of new tools and techniques to help you be effective in the moment - where healing really happens! Each session will be focused on the family's needs at that time with the end result being a secure Safety Net that will bring calm and healing to your entire family.
Just follow these 3 steps...
1. Order your coaching hours below! (choose phone or Skype and # of hours)
2. Click to Return to Hope Connections to choose the date and time that works best for you and your family!
3. Complete and return the Get To Know Us worksheet! (gives us the ability to get right to work)
SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES! If you are unable to find an appointment time because you live in a time zone that is more than 4 hours different from Central Time, please email Stacy at clientcare@tohavehope.com to make those arrangements!
Our coaching session will take place via Skype or phone as you request. I will have your family's basic information so that we can get right to work! Our time will consist of identifying the hurdles you are encountering. Then making direct correlations between those hurdles and their roots. Finally, we will work to put in place the first steps of a healing plan, which will consist of new tools and techniques to help you be effective in the moment - where healing really happens! Each session will be focused on the family's needs at that time with the end result being a secure Safety Net that will bring calm and healing to your entire family.
What are other families saying about working with Stacy?
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Karen, adoptive Mom says: There has not been a more effective help in the parenting of our adopted children than the coaching I have received from Stacy Manning. I would recommend it to anyone! She provides a safe place to share all you are dealing with. No condemnation. Real help. True understanding. She is doing it too. She gets us! Do it! You won't regret it!
Julie, adoptive Mom says: After bringing our children home five years ago - our family has finally reached a place of calm and healing. We would not be here without the always spot on exceptional advice and therapeutic parenting techniques shared with us by Stacy. “Table time” has brought structure to our lives and for the first time I see my children absorbing, understanding and remembering information by using a variety of sensory input in a relaxed environment. |
Marci, adoptive Mom says: When I'm drowning in my mess, there is nothing like a "re-framing" chat with Stacy to pull me up out of the ditch and back on the road to being the therapeutic Mom my adopted and biological kids need and deserve! Thanks for the encouragement, Stacy!
Mark, adoptive Dad says: My wife and I were lucky enough to attend a series of preparatory classes taught by Stacy, prior to adopted our two children from Russia in 2006 - and we believe our children are miles ahead developmentally because of it. Learning that adoptive children exhibit many of the same behaviors was eye-opening and seeing first-hand how the correct responses so quickly produce a positive outcome is nothing short of amazing. No one understands adoptive child behavior like Stacy and she continues to be a treasured resource for information and advice. |
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