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Pulled in Many Directions

3/15/2017

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I know you are being pulled in a million different directions. School, social workers, doctors, therapists, family members, friends, random strangers...all want to tell you how to help your child heal.

Where do you turn? Who knows best? How can you find something that works? It's exhausting and lots of times it gets tempting to just quit!

I've been right where you are - it feels like you're on a merry go round that just won't stop. I fought hard to get it to stop and what I learned was that what we need is FOCUS! 

To get your family to where you want it to be it's important to stop comparing, stop looking back, stop using tools that don't work, stop fretting, and stop questioning yourself. All that stuff trips you up. 

The faster you get to FOCUS, the faster you get to ACTION.
And the faster you get to ACTION, the faster you get the OUTCOME you are looking for.  


My OUTCOME? I wanted a shift. I wanted the hard behavior to stop. I wanted my child to be happy. I wanted her to feel connected to me. I wanted her to feel safe. I wanted to feel like a good Mom again. I wanted to laugh. I wanted peace and calm. 

My FOCUS became...parenting a new way. The way that was best for each of my children. Even if it was different then everyone else -and it was!

My ACTION was (and still is) to meet my children right where they were at. Using tools and strategies to Intentionally parent my whole child. Deficits, trauma, grief and loss, history, gifts, and challenges - eyes wide open - meeting them for as long as it takes and no matter what!  

The Final OUTCOME...I got what I was looking for! My children are each thriving as individuals. We are very connected. No more ugly behaviors or words. When feeling safe kicked in, they began to find their passions and are blossoming. We began to make new happy memories. Our family is peaceful and calm. Wow, what a difference!
  
How about YOU? Is your family where you want it to be?  
Are YOU Focused?
Do you have an ACTION PLAN? 

Are YOU ready to create change?  

I have got REALLY GOOD NEWS for you...I have brought together everything you need to jump in and make it happen. No more wondering. This is it! My Intentional Parent Coaching Group - Find your FOCUS. Take ACTION that works. Create the OUTCOME you want!   
As a member you will have all of this at your finger tips plus more:
  • Weekly LIVE coaching calls where you can ask me your questions and get your specific challenges answered
  • Personal interaction with me in a private FB group
  • A monthly training video
  • Two Minute Tidbits – short videos with easy an action step to take that will make a difference in your day.
  • Access to my Learning Library, with 13 full length courses as well as the recorded weekly calls
  • And Everything is recorded in case life gets in the way

There's nothing more to think about...The faster you get to focus the faster you get to breakthrough and healing. 
Let's do this TODAY- JOIN US!
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