 What is that one behavior that leaves you with one foot in the relationship and one foot out?
We all have them. Spitting. Lying. Stealing. Grunting. Chanting. Eye-Rolling. Slumping. You know what I mean...what is yours? Mine changed periodically, but I think the one that was the most difficult for me was the lying. Over and Over. Even if they watched me watch them doing what they said they didn't do. Especially when the proof was sitting right in front of them. Ugh... I must say it really kept me a step or two back in our relationship. I wasn't proud of it then and I'm not proud of it now, but it was the truth. But honestly, once I became an Intentional Parent and decided to do it differently, those behaviors were less and less a problem. I began to use the Healing Formula I created to Parent my children in a more healing way. Finally putting the Behavior Breakdown Technique into play helped me to meet my child right where she was so that the behaviors had different names and different impacts on me and our relationship. Our whole family felt the shift! I know it's hard. And I for sure know how tired you are. I also know that having a plan - tools that work - is energizing and empowering. I know that change is ultimately what you are looking for; I was too. You know what else I know...you have to go after it! Sure, you can settle and say that it's not going to change anyway or that you've tried everything and then NO it WILL NOT change. You have to go where the change is happening! Get caught in the flow of other people who get it. Parents who want what you want for your family. And parents and professionals who have been there and are on the other side with knowledge and experience to help you get there more easily! I have some REALLY exciting news for you today... I want to personally help you and your family to feel the shift too! I care about you and your family so I want you to have the benefits of the Behavior Breakdown Technique at your fingertips. Here's where you begin... As of TODAY, my most attended class - Lying, Stealing and Other Push Back Behaviors - is now included in the Intentional Parent Learning Library! AND in March, I will be holding a bonus Q&A to answer YOUR questions about how to deal with the Push Back Behaviors YOU are living with. The ABSOLUTE BEST NEWS...It's ALL FREE to the members of my Intentional Parent Coaching Group! Membership not only gets you access to the Learning Library (which is packed with over a dozen of my top selling classes) it ALSO INCLUDES: -Meet with Stacy 3x/month to get your questions answered -A monthly "Training to use Today" Live session and q&a -Recordings of all of the sessions and the ability to ask questions on Facebook when you can't be Live -Membership in our Closed Facebook Group -24/7 Support by members who are in it with you -Weekly check-ins and tweaks -FREE registration to any class I teach and SO much more Come to where change is happening - Get Started Today! http://www.tohavehope.com/intentional-parent-coaching-group.html Can't wait to work together.
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